This post is short, sweet, and RANDOM! I just wanted to say that my name is UNKNWN and I have a shopping addiction.
Get Smart. Don’t Shop Until You Drop. Don’t Shop Until You’re Broke. In Other Words, Don’t Be Like Me.
So I told you guys I was coming back harder than ever right? Anyway, here’s one of the many topics I am going to attempt to write about upon viewers’ requests.
Today, I’m talking about Relationships. To be more specific, I am going to discuss the positive side to being single. I know you’re thinking “Unknwn… You’re too young to be talking about relationships! What do you know?”
You’re right, I am pretty young to be discussing the pros and cons to such a common occurrence in life. I don’t really know what I’m talking about! Well I actually do know what I’m talking about when it comes to today’s topic! Anything more than this and you may want to refer to a dating coach! Just kidding… I know a lot of stuff, I just don’t talk about it. But that’s why this blog exists, so I can share my knowledge with the world!
Anyways, I’m off topic! So, like I was saying I am going to discuss the good things about being single! Many people dislike being single and rather drag themselves through a hopeless relationship than just ride solo. I am one of those people. After a pretty horrible and dramatic two year-long relationship, I realized being single may be a better choice. Of course I had many thoughts running through my head. I didn’t want to be alone, I didn’t know how I would spend my day since it normally revolved around my significant other, so on and so forth. However, when everything was said and done I felt a sense of relief!
Think about it this way, you can go where you want when you want and do whatever you want with whomever you want and not have to answer to someone. That alone is exhilarating! Now, one may say, “That doesn’t have to happen only when you’re single. You can have that freedom in a relationship too.” Well here’s what I think: a healthy relationship is based on trust, but everyone knows even when you trust your partner, you don’t and won’t let them run around doing whatever with whomever, that’s just not how stuff works!
To me I associate the word “Single” with “Freedom”. That doesn’t mean I view a relationship as taking away my freedom but as I said above, with relationships comes restrictions. Being single is all about doing you and not focusing on someone else. I think it’s the best time to find yourself and what makes you happy. In the end, you have a better understanding of what you want in life and in a partner as well.
Now, does it always happen like this? No. Absolutely not. Some take the “Single Life” as a time to hook up with numerous people or drag others down for not being single just like them. Those are the reasons why being single looks so bad! Every person in this world has at least one single friend. You know, the one who claims he/she is so happy to be single but, every time you guys go out he/she is the first one drowning away their sorrows in ten shots of Vodka!? The one who makes you happy you’re in a relationship because you’re afraid you may turn out exactly like him/her!? Yea, do me a favor and get rid of that friend right now. He/she is a danger to any and all of your future relationships!
Please take my advice, if you’re single don’t feel bad, use this as anopportunity to get to know yourself a little better. Don’t waste your time abusing alcohol, drugs, sex, or any other addictive substance/activity. Yes, sex can become an addiction; just watch Jersey Shore!
Get Smart. Don’t Hang Around Depressed Single People. They’re Bad Influences. Enjoy Your Time Being Single. It’s Not So Bad.
Yo! What’s goodie internet fam!? So I’ve been gone for a minute but, I’m back and ready to write! I have so many topics to touch on I don’t know what to post about first! Well let me say this, I haven’t been feeling so motivated to write lately so this is kind of like a big deal!
Anyway, continue to send those requests… I’m doing my best to get to them all!
Get Smart. I’m be tired sometimes. But I’m Back Now!
Yes, yes I know this is primarily a music blog but, check it: this is my blog so I can post whatever I want. Boom. Please take no offense on the “boom” if you are from San Francisco and know what that means. I am simply ranting in this post.
Let the rant begin!
I am so sick and tired of people with bad attitudes. I am not going to disclose the person I am referring to but, seriously, life gets rough sometimes just shut up and deal with it. Things only have meaning when you give them meaning. Existentialism. Get Smart. In other words, when you start giving certain negative aspects in your life meaning, you are bound to suffer along with that negativity. But you can pay it no mind and move on, that way you are not dedicating your life to trippin off of every bad thing. I’ll use myself as an example. I’m not always happy with my life. Heck, I’m sitting here posting on a blog that hardly anyone reads! Am I trippin off of that? H-E-Double Hockey Sticks No! I don’t even think about how much my life sucks at times (because it does suck at times!) I think about the future and what is going to make me happy. I think about moving to NYC in the near future, my major in college, how I’m going to build the “Unknwn” brand, and other great things I’m trying to accomplish. To make a long story short, life sucks sometimes….get over it. Everything is temporary so don’t waste time trippin off of unhappy things.
Get Smart. Get Happy. Live Life.